You've probably already seen that ad, and you've probably already been linked to
bodlon's
post on the topic of the backlash against gay marriage.
smirnoffmule also linked me to
a breakdown of the lies in the video.
Last night, I was watching the latest episode of Project Runway Canada, the second-last episode where the mentor goes back to the contestants homes to see their collections and meet their friends and families. The front-runner, Sunny Fong, who we already know lost his father to cancer, talks a bit about how he hopes his mum will be proud of him if he wins, because even though he knows she is, she's never said it out loud. He tears up - it's very moving, and very clear there's some difficulty between them.
And then we go meet his friends, who are "more his family than his actual family", including... his husband.
You know, gay marriage has been legal here for a few years now, and I still get startled and excited when I hear a man introduce his husband, or a woman introduce her wife. Because it's
true. Because they get to say it. Because they don't have to help anyone hide their bigotry behind vague terms like "partner", or juvenile terms like "boyfriend/girlfriend".
Because they've been together for nine years, and how dare anyone tell Sunny he doesn't have a right to make a new, legal family with this man whom he so clearly adores?
Take heart, my American friends. You'll get there. It'll suck, it might take the overturning of a generation, but I believe with all my heart you will get there. Because it's about freedom. Because it's about love. Because it's the only right thing to do, and though sometimes getting it right takes time, you're pretty damn good at getting there eventually.